1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:09,740 [Music] 2 00:00:14,220 --> 00:00:12,029 welcome to the hidden truth show podcast 3 00:00:16,740 --> 00:00:14,230 I'm Jim Breslow we're doing a deep dive 4 00:00:18,359 --> 00:00:16,750 into the transgender movement which are 5 00:00:20,939 --> 00:00:18,369 about to see is an interview that I did 6 00:00:22,410 --> 00:00:20,949 with Aidan Olsen Kennedy he is the 7 00:00:25,130 --> 00:00:22,420 executive director of the Los Angeles 8 00:00:28,470 --> 00:00:25,140 gender clinic he is a transgender man 9 00:00:31,050 --> 00:00:28,480 married to a woman and the stepfather to 10 00:00:33,869 --> 00:00:31,060 her child it's a far ranging discussion 11 00:00:35,700 --> 00:00:33,879 that I think you'll enjoy check it out 12 00:00:36,389 --> 00:00:35,710 and if you want to hear the rest of the 13 00:00:45,329 --> 00:00:36,399 podcast 14 00:00:46,979 --> 00:00:45,339 place to come from because we actually 15 00:00:49,169 --> 00:00:46,989 don't look for causation for things that 16 00:00:51,270 --> 00:00:49,179 we generally celebrate and that we don't 17 00:00:52,799 --> 00:00:51,280 have negative feelings about we look for 18 00:00:53,729 --> 00:00:52,809 causation of homosexuality but we did 19 00:00:55,649 --> 00:00:53,739 not look for causation of 20 00:00:57,239 --> 00:00:55,659 heterosexuality we look for causation 21 00:00:59,069 --> 00:00:57,249 for trans experience but we don't look 22 00:01:01,079 --> 00:00:59,079 for causation for for cisgender 23 00:01:03,389 --> 00:01:01,089 experience and so I think that even the 24 00:01:08,370 --> 00:01:03,399 starting point the premise there's a lot 25 00:01:10,380 --> 00:01:08,380 of just to be critical of that starting 26 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:10,390 point that what we kind of universally 27 00:01:14,430 --> 00:01:12,250 actually do know is that gender identity 28 00:01:16,380 --> 00:01:14,440 as an experience lives in the brain and 29 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:16,390 that if we I'm not saying that there's 30 00:01:21,030 --> 00:01:18,010 transfers who haven't experienced trauma 31 00:01:23,070 --> 00:01:21,040 sadly unfortunately far too many of the 32 00:01:25,320 --> 00:01:23,080 experience trauma but if trauma in and 33 00:01:27,270 --> 00:01:25,330 of itself was a predicting factor for 34 00:01:30,210 --> 00:01:27,280 trans experience our numbers of trans 35 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:30,220 people would be way way higher because 36 00:01:35,550 --> 00:01:33,130 we know that roughly one in three women 37 00:01:36,810 --> 00:01:35,560 experienced significant sexual trauma 38 00:01:38,850 --> 00:01:36,820 and that doesn't translate to the 39 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:38,860 numbers of trans folks in LA it's 40 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:40,210 estimated based on the Williams 41 00:01:42,900 --> 00:01:40,690 Institute 42 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:42,910 there's conservatively conservatively 43 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:45,490 probably about 175,000 trans adults and 44 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:49,690 somewhere around 26,000 trans youth 45 00:01:54,180 --> 00:01:52,330 under the age of 18 if it was trauma 46 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:54,190 based those numbers would be so much 47 00:01:59,700 --> 00:01:57,010 higher are there is there coincidence of 48 00:02:01,560 --> 00:01:59,710 trans folks and LGB folks in general who 49 00:02:05,250 --> 00:02:01,570 experienced trauma sure but it's not 50 00:02:07,649 --> 00:02:05,260 causation well so but you're saying that 51 00:02:09,619 --> 00:02:07,659 pretty definitively I mean so if you as 52 00:02:11,790 --> 00:02:09,629 you sit here today what's the cause of 53 00:02:12,630 --> 00:02:11,800 gender dysphoria and ultimately 54 00:02:14,009 --> 00:02:12,640 transgenderism 55 00:02:16,229 --> 00:02:14,019 well it's an in congruence of gender 56 00:02:18,209 --> 00:02:16,239 identity and gender experience right but 57 00:02:18,660 --> 00:02:18,219 but your congruence as a cisgender 58 00:02:20,580 --> 00:02:18,670 person 59 00:02:22,050 --> 00:02:20,590 is that your assigned sex does match 60 00:02:24,780 --> 00:02:22,060 your internal sense of gender identity 61 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:24,790 mine as a trans person did not that 62 00:02:29,100 --> 00:02:27,250 there's no root of trauma that is around 63 00:02:30,540 --> 00:02:29,110 that anymore than trauma if you will 64 00:02:32,699 --> 00:02:30,550 caused your gender identity gender 65 00:02:35,699 --> 00:02:32,709 identity is an innate experience just 66 00:02:37,620 --> 00:02:35,709 like but what is the cause of our gender 67 00:02:39,570 --> 00:02:37,630 identity it lives in our brain we don't 68 00:02:41,820 --> 00:02:39,580 we don't know the cause of either 69 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:41,830 cisgender or transgender no that's what 70 00:02:45,630 --> 00:02:43,330 I'm gonna agree with you on that bottom 71 00:02:47,220 --> 00:02:45,640 line is we don't know but we but we do 72 00:02:49,110 --> 00:02:47,230 know with a lot of research and a lot of 73 00:02:51,330 --> 00:02:49,120 data we actually have a lot of clarity 74 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:51,340 that there's no evidence the point that 75 00:02:55,110 --> 00:02:53,410 it is trauma related so the absence of 76 00:02:57,630 --> 00:02:55,120 evidence doesn't mean that it does exist 77 00:02:59,490 --> 00:02:57,640 yeah no look I'm over the mind that we 78 00:03:02,670 --> 00:02:59,500 don't know and most experts would say 79 00:03:05,340 --> 00:03:02,680 it's probably some combination of nature 80 00:03:06,390 --> 00:03:05,350 and nurture what experts just generally 81 00:03:08,070 --> 00:03:06,400 speaking I'm not gonna say somebody 82 00:03:09,300 --> 00:03:08,080 right now but if you you're gonna put 83 00:03:10,620 --> 00:03:09,310 something forth like that I actually 84 00:03:12,630 --> 00:03:10,630 think that you do have an accountability 85 00:03:15,539 --> 00:03:12,640 to cite it because what you're talking 86 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:15,549 about is profoundly dangerous rhetoric 87 00:03:18,930 --> 00:03:17,530 for the community it's really really 88 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:18,940 dangerous yeah you do but just to be 89 00:03:23,550 --> 00:03:20,410 clear so you absolutely believe born 90 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:23,560 this way yes okay I absolutely do but as 91 00:03:26,789 --> 00:03:25,690 a person but somebody who is you know 92 00:03:29,460 --> 00:03:26,799 I've been working with trans folks in 93 00:03:31,349 --> 00:03:29,470 families for well over ten years I have 94 00:03:33,449 --> 00:03:31,359 at least a thousand people that I've 95 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:33,459 worked with and each individual persons 96 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:36,370 experience is unique but or and there 97 00:03:41,460 --> 00:03:38,650 are absolutely commonalities there's 98 00:03:43,410 --> 00:03:41,470 absolutely threads that run run through 99 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:43,420 people across the age band who have 100 00:03:50,310 --> 00:03:46,930 gender dysphoria and and it would it 101 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:50,320 would be irresponsible for me to to not 102 00:03:53,250 --> 00:03:51,850 sort of acknowledge of like wow look at 103 00:03:54,539 --> 00:03:53,260 the theme that runs through those 104 00:03:55,890 --> 00:03:54,549 thousands people and my colleagues and 105 00:03:58,560 --> 00:03:55,900 professionals it's all over the world 106 00:03:59,910 --> 00:03:58,570 doing this work and and you get a group 107 00:04:02,940 --> 00:03:59,920 of us at the table and we're all gonna 108 00:04:04,830 --> 00:04:02,950 be able to identify the themes that they 109 00:04:06,630 --> 00:04:04,840 run through the experiences of people 110 00:04:08,610 --> 00:04:06,640 with gender disorder how it shows up is 111 00:04:09,750 --> 00:04:08,620 gonna be individual but there's less and 112 00:04:11,550 --> 00:04:09,760 I want to talk more about that because 113 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:11,560 you're far more expert than me there's 114 00:04:17,159 --> 00:04:15,730 no doubt about that but I do want to go 115 00:04:18,840 --> 00:04:17,169 back to this point but that you saying 116 00:04:20,610 --> 00:04:18,850 me making that statement that you know 117 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:20,620 it could be nature and nurture is 118 00:04:26,010 --> 00:04:24,370 dangerous because what I believe is that 119 00:04:28,260 --> 00:04:26,020 simply because you're not born this way 120 00:04:31,110 --> 00:04:28,270 doesn't mean that's a person should not 121 00:04:32,370 --> 00:04:31,120 be loved respected accepted not 122 00:04:32,550 --> 00:04:32,380 discriminated against there seems to be 123 00:04:35,879 --> 00:04:32,560 the 124 00:04:37,860 --> 00:04:35,889 you're boring this way or it was a 125 00:04:38,909 --> 00:04:37,870 choice but let me just finish sorry that 126 00:04:39,330 --> 00:04:38,919 you're the born that's where there's a 127 00:04:41,580 --> 00:04:39,340 choice 128 00:04:42,420 --> 00:04:41,590 Michael wait a minute I'm not saying 129 00:04:44,310 --> 00:04:42,430 it's a choice 130 00:04:45,659 --> 00:04:44,320 I don't think gays choose to be gay and 131 00:04:48,030 --> 00:04:45,669 I don't think trans people choose to be 132 00:04:49,500 --> 00:04:48,040 trans but I'm not convinced that you're 133 00:04:50,730 --> 00:04:49,510 born this way I think it's very possible 134 00:04:54,270 --> 00:04:50,740 that there could be something that 135 00:04:56,280 --> 00:04:54,280 happens either in the room or at a very 136 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:56,290 young age or what have you that that 137 00:04:59,610 --> 00:04:58,030 affects things that could affects the 138 00:05:02,520 --> 00:04:59,620 sexual identity could affect sexual 139 00:05:04,170 --> 00:05:02,530 orientation and so you know and maybe it 140 00:05:06,060 --> 00:05:04,180 causes changes to the brain but it 141 00:05:08,010 --> 00:05:06,070 happens that such an early age that no 142 00:05:09,570 --> 00:05:08,020 it's not a choice so that could be 143 00:05:12,270 --> 00:05:09,580 correct I want to separate out things 144 00:05:13,650 --> 00:05:12,280 that people don't like to hear because 145 00:05:15,540 --> 00:05:13,660 they want to be fully accepted to say 146 00:05:17,430 --> 00:05:15,550 born this way from just finding out the 147 00:05:19,740 --> 00:05:17,440 truth you know my shows about trying to 148 00:05:23,219 --> 00:05:19,750 find the truth and just to finish my 149 00:05:24,810 --> 00:05:23,229 point I I think absolutely trans and 150 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:24,820 gays should be loved accepted everything 151 00:05:27,900 --> 00:05:26,650 else whether you're born this way or 152 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:27,910 whether it happens at early childhood 153 00:05:31,350 --> 00:05:28,810 makes no difference to me 154 00:05:32,670 --> 00:05:31,360 may not make difference to you but it 155 00:05:34,890 --> 00:05:32,680 actually makes a huge difference to a 156 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:34,900 lot of folks but it's um well should or 157 00:05:38,670 --> 00:05:36,610 should well we can spend a lot of time 158 00:05:39,810 --> 00:05:38,680 we shouldn't over all the truth be the 159 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:39,820 most important thing but the truth is 160 00:05:42,719 --> 00:05:41,410 subjective you're trying to put forth 161 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:42,729 the truth that I don't share that I 162 00:05:45,750 --> 00:05:44,530 don't agree with and so whose truth are 163 00:05:47,490 --> 00:05:45,760 we talking well I don't think truth is 164 00:05:49,140 --> 00:05:47,500 subjective I think and we're not gonna 165 00:05:51,090 --> 00:05:49,150 figure it out today and I'm not saying 166 00:05:51,930 --> 00:05:51,100 that I'm right and I know you're not 167 00:05:53,340 --> 00:05:51,940 saying that you're right because neither 168 00:05:55,650 --> 00:05:53,350 of us as we sit here today know but 169 00:05:57,719 --> 00:05:55,660 truth is the truth I mean bottom line is 170 00:06:00,810 --> 00:05:57,729 for any particular individual and maybe 171 00:06:03,570 --> 00:06:00,820 more broadly there is some reason why 172 00:06:05,370 --> 00:06:03,580 you are trans we don't know what that is 173 00:06:06,870 --> 00:06:05,380 it could be some wiring in the brain it 174 00:06:09,930 --> 00:06:06,880 could be DNA it could be something that 175 00:06:12,210 --> 00:06:09,940 happened but what happened did something 176 00:06:13,529 --> 00:06:12,220 happened to you have you spent any time 177 00:06:15,719 --> 00:06:13,539 or energy of you engage in a 178 00:06:16,890 --> 00:06:15,729 conversation with anyone that requires 179 00:06:21,330 --> 00:06:16,900 you or forced you to think about the 180 00:06:23,969 --> 00:06:21,340 origin why you are not trans well we 181 00:06:27,210 --> 00:06:23,979 could go to evolution and say buddy you 182 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:27,220 get evolution and I don't well you're 183 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:30,010 you're being trans as an exception if 184 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:32,050 we're gonna do evolution because if 185 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:34,330 people were trade that evolution 186 00:06:38,610 --> 00:06:36,250 wouldn't have gone the way it did right 187 00:06:40,350 --> 00:06:38,620 so no that's based on the premise that 188 00:06:41,730 --> 00:06:40,360 people are not procreating like trans 189 00:06:42,089 --> 00:06:41,740 folks are not carrying children having 190 00:06:46,239 --> 00:06:42,099 children 191 00:06:47,709 --> 00:06:46,249 because of modern medicine 192 00:06:50,489 --> 00:06:47,719 no but it transpeople when having 193 00:06:53,259 --> 00:06:50,499 children as carrying children 194 00:06:57,969 --> 00:06:53,269 genetically contributing to children for 195 00:07:00,789 --> 00:06:57,979 for a long long long time along okay let 196 00:07:02,259 --> 00:07:00,799 me let me ask gender dysphoria which 197 00:07:03,429 --> 00:07:02,269 used to be called gender identity 198 00:07:04,929 --> 00:07:03,439 disorder and they change it because they 199 00:07:07,719 --> 00:07:04,939 say that's not a disorder but bottom 200 00:07:10,719 --> 00:07:07,729 line is gender dysphoria is something 201 00:07:12,849 --> 00:07:10,729 that requires treatment people don't in 202 00:07:15,099 --> 00:07:12,859 a happy manner generally live with 203 00:07:16,559 --> 00:07:15,109 gender dysphoria typically it's treated 204 00:07:18,699 --> 00:07:16,569 and ultimately one of the cheers may be 205 00:07:21,249 --> 00:07:18,709 transition but it is something that 206 00:07:24,219 --> 00:07:21,259 needs to be treated and how it should be 207 00:07:27,939 --> 00:07:24,229 treated I think is an important question 208 00:07:29,559 --> 00:07:27,949 and what is the cause of it you need to 209 00:07:31,629 --> 00:07:29,569 know what the cause of it is before you 210 00:07:33,369 --> 00:07:31,639 can agree you don't need to know the 211 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:33,379 cause of it no there's a million things 212 00:07:36,549 --> 00:07:34,610 that we provide treatment for that we 213 00:07:38,279 --> 00:07:36,559 don't know the cause of there's so many 214 00:07:40,989 --> 00:07:38,289 things that we medically that 215 00:07:43,539 --> 00:07:40,999 psychologically that we don't spend time 216 00:07:45,849 --> 00:07:43,549 and energy looking at causation what we 217 00:07:47,079 --> 00:07:45,859 say is like oh this is a place in which 218 00:07:48,339 --> 00:07:47,089 you are struggling this is a place in 219 00:07:49,389 --> 00:07:48,349 which you need support this is a place 220 00:07:51,100 --> 00:07:49,399 in you eat in which you need 221 00:07:52,209 --> 00:07:51,110 intervention and so with that's the 222 00:07:53,739 --> 00:07:52,219 starting point and we figure out how to 223 00:07:55,509 --> 00:07:53,749 maximize the quality of that person's 224 00:07:57,669 --> 00:07:55,519 life we actually don't know the 225 00:07:58,959 --> 00:07:57,679 causation for a tremendous amount of 226 00:08:00,939 --> 00:07:58,969 things that people seek medical and 227 00:08:02,739 --> 00:08:00,949 mental health care for well but all the 228 00:08:03,939 --> 00:08:02,749 better if you do know because then you 229 00:08:06,549 --> 00:08:03,949 would know you'd be wasting your time 230 00:08:08,109 --> 00:08:06,559 with certain treatments right so Bette 231 00:08:10,539 --> 00:08:08,119 better to know so for instance if you're 232 00:08:12,129 --> 00:08:10,549 born this way and somebody comes to you 233 00:08:15,609 --> 00:08:12,139 and says gee I'd like to get counseling 234 00:08:18,549 --> 00:08:15,619 to not be trans you preserve all gee 235 00:08:20,469 --> 00:08:18,559 Johnny you're born trans so the best 236 00:08:22,179 --> 00:08:20,479 thing for you to do is to follow this 237 00:08:24,039 --> 00:08:22,189 course and not this is such a narrative 238 00:08:25,869 --> 00:08:24,049 reduced that's just that's just not how 239 00:08:27,459 --> 00:08:25,879 people practice well because we don't 240 00:08:29,229 --> 00:08:27,469 know the answer right now okay we're 241 00:08:30,969 --> 00:08:29,239 we're not gonna agree and they're going 242 00:08:32,439 --> 00:08:30,979 down a bit of a rabbit hole yeah and so 243 00:08:33,939 --> 00:08:32,449 I think that may be like is there 244 00:08:37,209 --> 00:08:33,949 something else we can move on to because 245 00:08:39,610 --> 00:08:37,219 this is not something that's I don't 246 00:08:40,869 --> 00:08:39,620 feel like you you you had somebody else 247 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:40,879 on the show you have whatever sort of 248 00:08:44,650 --> 00:08:43,370 personal interactions or experience 249 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:44,660 you've had with the trans community and 250 00:08:49,780 --> 00:08:48,170 and the reality is is like you have your 251 00:08:52,449 --> 00:08:49,790 perspective you have your opinions and 252 00:08:53,980 --> 00:08:52,459 you have your probably very narrow data 253 00:08:57,610 --> 00:08:53,990 base that you're that you're sort of 254 00:08:59,410 --> 00:08:57,620 speaking from and and I'm not saying 255 00:09:00,550 --> 00:08:59,420 that this database that you have is not 256 00:09:02,170 --> 00:09:00,560 accurately represented from 257 00:09:03,670 --> 00:09:02,180 this perspective it may be a hundred 258 00:09:05,590 --> 00:09:03,680 percent actually represented from the 259 00:09:07,630 --> 00:09:05,600 folks in the community in the access 260 00:09:10,690 --> 00:09:07,640 points that you have it happens to not 261 00:09:13,330 --> 00:09:10,700 be a accurate representation of the data 262 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:13,340 set well I am so just go ahead and share 263 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:16,490 with me your data set and your feelings 264 00:09:22,750 --> 00:09:19,810 what you've learned from living this 265 00:09:24,940 --> 00:09:22,760 much longer than I have I mean I'll say 266 00:09:27,490 --> 00:09:24,950 this many times you are the expert I'm 267 00:09:28,810 --> 00:09:27,500 not the expert I'm I'm coming from a 268 00:09:30,100 --> 00:09:28,820 layman's perspective trying to 269 00:09:31,930 --> 00:09:30,110 understand something and help an 270 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:31,940 audience understand something but share 271 00:09:34,900 --> 00:09:33,170 with me please you know what you've 272 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:34,910 learned through the through your 273 00:09:40,660 --> 00:09:36,650 practice what I feel like I already have 274 00:09:42,790 --> 00:09:40,670 like the the the reality is is that when 275 00:09:45,579 --> 00:09:42,800 when we look at understanding where 276 00:09:47,290 --> 00:09:45,589 generalize any lives for people there is 277 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:47,300 sort of within the professional and 278 00:09:51,790 --> 00:09:49,610 scientific community there's a general 279 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:51,800 understanding that it lives somewhere in 280 00:09:56,110 --> 00:09:54,290 the brain we don't know where but we 281 00:09:57,790 --> 00:09:56,120 sort of have this like understanding 282 00:09:59,410 --> 00:09:57,800 universal understanding because when we 283 00:10:02,290 --> 00:09:59,420 look at the overall numbers of people 284 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:02,300 who are not trans we just have the basic 285 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:03,890 assumption that lives somewhere in the 286 00:10:06,670 --> 00:10:04,250 brain 287 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:06,680 identity in general sexuality gender 288 00:10:10,660 --> 00:10:09,290 identity lives in the brain right and if 289 00:10:12,430 --> 00:10:10,670 you're not trans like we all just sort 290 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:12,440 of happily go along and accept that to 291 00:10:17,230 --> 00:10:15,290 be true if you're trans and not so much 292 00:10:18,670 --> 00:10:17,240 now but definitely back in the day if 293 00:10:21,579 --> 00:10:18,680 you were anything other than 294 00:10:22,690 --> 00:10:21,589 heterosexual then there was dialogue of 295 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:22,700 like well what caused this and where 296 00:10:25,870 --> 00:10:23,930 does this live and what gene does this 297 00:10:27,310 --> 00:10:25,880 live on in the DNA and and we spend a 298 00:10:28,900 --> 00:10:27,320 lot of time and energy there and and 299 00:10:30,910 --> 00:10:28,910 thankfully we've moved largely moved 300 00:10:32,590 --> 00:10:30,920 away from that's not valuable 301 00:10:33,820 --> 00:10:32,600 that's actually not valuable it's not 302 00:10:35,680 --> 00:10:33,830 helpful if somebody comes in and they 303 00:10:37,540 --> 00:10:35,690 have gender dysphoria they themselves 304 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:37,550 like some people go through a process in 305 00:10:40,810 --> 00:10:39,290 the coming in where they're like what's 306 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:40,820 the orient of the origin of this like 307 00:10:46,300 --> 00:10:43,850 what's happening but most people find 308 00:10:48,610 --> 00:10:46,310 pretty quickly there's no value there's 309 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:48,620 no value for them I'm not so I don't 310 00:10:51,970 --> 00:10:49,850 think that there's a lot of value for 311 00:10:53,710 --> 00:10:51,980 there to be a tremendous amount of 312 00:10:56,110 --> 00:10:53,720 dollars and time and energy spent 313 00:10:58,150 --> 00:10:56,120 researching that question when the 314 00:10:59,650 --> 00:10:58,160 reality is is like like if people need 315 00:11:01,900 --> 00:10:59,660 care they need care it doesn't really 316 00:11:03,730 --> 00:11:01,910 matter where or why or how but if people 317 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:03,740 need care they need care and for some 318 00:11:07,150 --> 00:11:05,330 folks that care is going to be 319 00:11:09,430 --> 00:11:07,160 transition for other folks that care 320 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:09,440 will not be transition and if you are a 321 00:11:13,319 --> 00:11:11,810 good ethical provider you're creating 322 00:11:14,669 --> 00:11:13,329 space for both and all of the 323 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:14,679 there's scenarios that I haven't talked 324 00:11:18,660 --> 00:11:16,569 about if you enjoyed that part of the 325 00:11:20,699 --> 00:11:18,670 interview listen to the entire interview 326 00:11:22,619 --> 00:11:20,709 on the hidden truth show podcast where 327 00:11:24,550 --> 00:11:22,629 ever you listen to podcasts I'm Jim